rebirth

What is it about sex , that makes some people use their pits, as community disposal system ?  They crave for plugging into anyone,who is willing to stick their backsides to their faces.  Attraction being the exchange rate. Some by principle, never pay for sex. If the body be the * wonderland *, why can't it be treated as private property?Well groomed, perfectly landscaped private territory.Why does it have to be a public amusement park? Out for everyone to hear and see . Let me try to analyse this kinda brain for a change. Because everywhere I turn, I see women in denial of their sexual prowess post baby, and men, hungry to bed anyone willing to let them, express theirs. I see men, with amazing looking wives, who deny them pleasure in exchange of being denied the understanding, it takes from a man,towards a woman recouping, from a massive life and priority changing event, called childbirth. The recovery never happens, simply because most men ...

You look at her , she looks at you. Your eyes meet briefly, exactly at the same time. **You connect.** You find yourself in the lobby, hanging out,  waiting almost, until she walks past nonchalantly into the lift.  **You follow her.** You know the cameras exist so you restrict yourself to small talk. sometimes dish out instructions to meet for some discussion in the private confines of the Office chamber.  **You are on a power trip. ** You wanna exercise your command to test waters. She arrives a bit later than you expected,  into your office. You are smitten by the grace with which she drapes her saree.  **You compliment her elegance.**  She is taken aback, but welcomes a warm compliment from her senior.  You try to make small talk. Trying to engage her in conversations by asking her opinion about subjects you have already made your conclusions for.  **You look for a point of entry.** She provides it by u...

Let's imagine the possibility of such a situation existing . Shall we? A baby girl is born in a well to do household. Mama takes care of her, her papa and her extended family. Baby gets to play with everyone and everyones chores belong to Mama. From cleaning to cooking appropriate meals for her, to feeding her every hour, chanting some incantation to repel anything negative, lest the negativity gets transferred to the food and the baby gets sick.  All fed, baby goes to others to play while the mom returns to  her other errands, like drying the clothes that were laundered by her in the morning, the same lot she didn't get time to dry ,coz she was making and serving breakfast for the family!  After which she must  cook lunch for the family. Which means she must prepare special meals for everyone according to their diet preferences. All the while "grateful" for the relatives for "taking care" of the baby girl , while she was busy with ...

When alone, listen to the body. When with people, observe the mind. The mind is the controller of the perception. Hence, mind the conduct. Perception is derived by the interpretation of the view from various angles called approach. If we were a tree, the portion growing above the earth can be called as growth, and the portion that dives under the surface of earth, are the roots. For a beautiful experience, one must aim to be closest to the trunk of the tree that touches the ground, and be able to look at his life and relationships as branches and fruit of the tree.  To think this view is permanent is silly. The view will change if one were perched at the top of the tree! Perception is the view you get based on your current location. It changes when you move. Just like google maps, you must re centre yourself . Thats the beauty of human mind, to be able to experience by observation, to be able to connect upon sight or touch or smell.  ...

Its the desire to be a better person that makes us do things which make others feel great, thus giving us a sense of gratification. A satisfaction to have influenced someone in a good way.The action is not initiated by a action plan. It is instead kickstarted by a deep desire. To state an example. I have a deep desire to uplift women in need. Based on my experience when I was once on the street for some really strange reasons, I understand a need for a woman to have safe shelter, edible clean food, some money at her disposal and something to keep her busy.  Most often when women desire to do something with their time besides what is expected from her within family, she is cut off from any access to any resource, which could aid her to fulfil her desire. In some families phones are confiscated, in some girls are locked in a room without food to get them to bend in a way, that is suitable for the family dynamics. There is a general "bad name" associated with women...

The Right Privilege Today the voice of the Nation (News ) is talking about an end of an era. An era that was defined by a sense of entitlement that permeated through the layers of society and displayed itself through entitled aristocrat like behaviour.  The new age is about rights. Rights that are earned and cannot be passed on as privilege .They can be passed down through skill share. Hence the reestablishment of the Guru -Shishya parampara . (Teacher-Student tradition) What is entitlement? It is as if everything is owed to you. There is no room for choices or acknowledgement for the giver. Leave alone a thank you. Its direct access to their energies , only instead of them or mutual, you are the sole benefactor getting recharged. Its a bit like stealing.  Its a feeling of having everyones resources for ones own disposal, as it were a birth right to have what one wants, regardless of the consequences . We are rapidly moving towards a truly secular ...