A Rigid Mind

When alone, listen to the body.

When with people, observe the mind.

The mind is the controller of the perception.

Hence, mind the conduct.

Perception is derived by the interpretation of the view from various angles called approach. If we were a tree, the portion growing above the earth can be called as growth, and the portion that dives under the surface of earth, are the roots. For a beautiful experience, one must aim to be closest to the trunk of the tree that touches the ground, and be able to look at his life and relationships as branches and fruit of the tree. 

To think this view is permanent is silly.

The view will change if one were perched at the top of the tree!

Perception is the view you get based on your current location. It changes when you move. Just like google maps, you must re centre yourself . Thats the beauty of human mind, to be able to experience by observation, to be able to connect upon sight or touch or smell. 

Mental rigidity is the first sign of tortured living.

A relationship is the connection between two minds that brings about an illusion of being one. Hence the person you share your depths with , should ideally be a partner. ( This is with a image that one has unfiltered access to to another ones time and thoughts , as intimacy is shared) 

The circle markers of depth should define various friendships. Correlating with the tree example, lets say people you find at different parts of the tree, exist because your mental journey with them has been that much. The more you interact the more beauty you create in the zone of mind they reside. There will be healthy lush  greenery based on a healthy exchange of emotions, and dry dehydrated love deprived patches if it hasn't received much love through attention ie communication.

If the tree were a visual depiction of ones life, shouldn't more emphasis be laid on stronger healthier roots , a clean environment, space to spread out, adequate nutrition and ample time to just be.

Due to negligence there could be dry spots, lifeless almost. That changes when the whole tree is looked at as one single unit that needs the basics to regrow. In due course of time ie. But it is possible. 

Learning a little more from nature, I understand the need for blowing with the wind as well as letting go of parts that are dry and worn out. Relating to our lives, there are many open relationships that drain us and make us dry and shrivelled from within. Upon understanding and letting go with hope for regrowth, we can cut off from these drying equations, let them shed of naturally by not feeding them with attention.

Sharing is about the vibe, the level of trust circle you open for another person.

When the body mind is in question, it refers to the depths of emotion previously reached by a result of interaction . It is looking for a suggestion or direction for a way to respond to , in a situation. A partner can be helpful, in maintaining stability of a circle. Relationships often tear apart when one party or both choose to change their circles for various reasons. A partner should be chosen based on the estimation of the number of years versus the final circle goal. A practical analysis should be made keeping in mind factors such as the level of circle tickled at sight, touch, and memory. Number of years is to represent the numbers of calculated self allotted time for various tasks. A partner can help in the process of self discovery. Sometimes as an active participant and sometimes with the power of subtle observation.

A circle has to choose to open up. It responds to conscious and righteous behaviour. It responds to earnest yearning. Energy is generated as each circle open up. An active partner can help crossing circles faster. It helps mutually if the purpose is of self discovery. The innocence a person brings out reflects on the amount of comfort given by them. In comfortable space, we tend to ease out, stretch and be more child like. 

Growing up doesn't have to mean we lose the innocence of responding to life. As the number called years increase, the data gathered becomes almost an unmanageable mess. Most often we are told to drop the baggage, as if it were a tangible object. Baggage doesn't just drop itself off if we hold on to memories, like it were the dear source of life itself. Baggage gets offloaded upon thorough enquiry of ones true nature behind the creation of the baggage. Once that is understood it becomes imperative to decode the deceptive nature of its expression. Such as being forever dejected, bitchy , rude etc. I tend to get into arguments if I am disturbed during the enquiry session. Its like being caught in a tangent which is not conducive for two people to ride on. Its for one to think it through, analyse and put things in perspective for themselves so that they can respond to the beauty in emotional exchanges , instead of being aloof and forever lost in the misery of ones own heaviness.

You don't have to respond to everything.

You can choose to respond , in a way you want and in fact when you want. The pressure you feel is mostly the next persons impatience for a response rubbing in, as a sense of urgency to respond. Most rash decisions are made like this, under subtle coercion . Its important to fend off such energies. Its needed that certain people be removed from the archetype status and be brought down to the trunk of reality. Its only when these spirits leave the tree, can the tree be healthy .

Think about that :P